Ralph Donald, aged 35, died by suicide after attempting to kill his ex-partner Eileen Gibbons on 3 October 2023 in Milner, NT. The death occurred in context of escalating coercive control including verbal abuse, property control, and physical detention. Over seven months, Eileen made multiple police reports and sought help from services; however, police failed to recognise coercive control (newly legislated in 2024), did not initiate domestic violence orders despite clear opportunities, and did not seize Ralph's firearms despite knowing they were present. DCF received inadequate mandatory reports missing critical information. Ralph sought help for alcohol and relationship issues but was inadequately supported. Services lacked early intervention capacity. The coroner found that had appropriate police responses occurred—including initiating DVOs and seizing firearms—and had Ralph received better support services, his death was preventable.
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failure of police to recognise coercive control as domestic violence
failure to initiate domestic violence orders despite clear opportunities
failure to seize firearms when investigating domestic violence complaint despite knowing firearms were present
inadequate mandatory reports to child protection agency lacking critical information
inadequate support services for men at risk of using violence
lack of early intervention services for couples experiencing relationship problems
alcohol abuse
relationship breakdown and separation from child
lack of accessible support services when perpetrator sought help
vicarious trauma and unmet needs in specialist domestic violence sector
Coroner's recommendations
Establish and adequately fund a multi-agency Domestic and Family Violence Death Review Team (DFVDRT) convened by the NT Coroner or Deputy Coroner, including representatives from Aboriginal organisations, NT Police, Department of Children and Families, NT Corrections, NT Health, NAAJA, NT Legal Aid, Department of Education, non-government service providers, and lived experience experts, modelled on NSW Coroners Act 2009 Part 9
NT Police Force should prioritise delivery of face-to-face Prevent. Assist. Respond. (PARt) training to all officers responding to domestic, family or sexual violence incidents and JESCC call takers; ensure all officers undertake initial face-to-face PARt followed by online refresher modules; and fast-track officers falling substantially short of expected standards to complete face-to-face PARt training
NT Police should explore system architecture changes to SupportLink to enable inclusion of CRATs, PRSTs and other risk assessment documents and SerPro narratives in referrals, and to prompt referrers to indicate safe contact methods; and update the Domestic and Family Violence General Order accordingly
NT Government should enact legislative change to give police discretion to seize firearms when lawfully in a dwelling investigating a domestic and family violence complaint, with commensurate increase in police resourcing if required
Department of Children and Families should make system architecture changes to prompt and enable submission of CRATs, PRSTs and other risk assessment documents, and relevant SerPro narratives in reports alleging domestic and family violence
Department of Children and Families should embed a specialist DFV practitioner at Central Intake to assist in assessing reports alleging domestic or family violence, with training in RAMF, Safe and Together, and face-to-face PARt
Department of Children and Families should consider rolling out face-to-face PARt training to all employees responding to domestic or family violence allegations in their day-to-day duties, followed by online refresher and supplementary modules
NT Government should provide funding for an increased number of specialist DFV counsellors employed by services across the Territory including Relationships Australia NT, ensuring access for men and women, Aboriginal and non-Aboriginal people, in remote and urban areas
NT Government should urgently restore the $6.5 million Department of Logistics and Infrastructure funding to Dawn House to upgrade its facility and increase the number of crisis accommodation shelters
NT Government should implement the ANROWS recommendation for an outcome evaluation of NT Men's Behaviour Change Programs
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